"yo babe, why r u so jealous? it's ain't like i'm sleeping with the girl."

In a relationship... you must have 5 things in your mind...

-commitment, trust, honesty-
-you, me-

-us-

If i were a Boy / Girl by Beyonce
If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I'd roll oudda bed in the mornin'
And throw on what I wanted then go
Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I'd kick it with who I wanted
And I'd never get confronted for it.
Cause they'd stick up for me.

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man.
I'd listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cause he's taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

If I were a girl
Even just for a day
I'd get oudda bed in the mornin'
And take forever to ready.
Complain to my friends
As if they got a man. (Ohh)
They talk about you cause they jealous,
I just steady listen to it
I should get rid of them.

If I were a girl
I don't think I'd understand
How it feels to love a boy

I swear I'd be a better woman.
I'd listen to him
Cause I don't know everything.
I would always try to tell em
That he needs to treat me better
Like I don't godda change at all.
If I were a girl

It's a little too late for you to come back (No)
Say it's just a mistake
Think I'd forgive you like that (I don't)
If you thought I would wait for you
You thought wrong (I'm better off)

But you're just a boy
And you're just a girl
You don't understand (No)
Yeah you don't understand (Oh)
How it feels to love a girl someday
You wish you were a better man
You don't listen to her
And you don't listen to him
You don't care how it hurts
You don't care how I feel
Until you lose the one you wanted
Cause you've taken her for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
But you're just a boy
And you're just a girl

somehow i felt that this song that beyonce sings, really is something. the lyrics is so realistic, people often take things or other people for granted. thinking that their loved ones would eventually forgive them for their mistakes just like that, they actually hurt their loved ones!

guys?

we were once boys, childish, playful, curious... but it's time for us to grow into our shoes. it's time for us to understand and reason with our every actions. So that we won't regret it, when we grow older. Girls come and go, but the one standing right in front of you, is the present, and you'll never find a replacement exactly like her. Cherish what you have and don't let go.

girls?

Spend more time with the guys, tell him that you love him once in a while. Treat him just like how you wanted him to treat you. It's ok to be initiative once a while, since you are already together with him, don't make it all like a one side party or else you'll eventually lose him.

*The above statement is all based on self opinion*